If someone would have told me 4 years ago that a former friend had serious issues, I’m not sure I would have believed it.
This isn’t the case anymore. I’ve found out about a different person than I saw which just goes to show that you really CAN”T judge a book by its cover. Over this past year, I have seen what a vile, vengeful, uncaring, sick person this former friend is. She has taken the lives of very dear friends turned them completely upside down. She’s made threats on messengers, social networking sites and blogs . She’s harassed my friends to the point they felt they had no other choice but to take a step back and leave sites and take down blogs that have been worked on and cherished for years. She’s been asked by both friends to leave them alone. It’s one thing to love someone and have a close friendship, It’s completely another when you obsess over someone to the point of following them everywhere, copying everything about them She couldn’t back off and give them space instead she made threats upon herself as a vice to try to win. I’ve learned a lot from living through and being there for these dear friends. I’ve learned a lot about myself and about other people.
Now the time has come to say THANK YOU! Thank you for showing me what delusion is. Because of you, I know how to loathe another human being. I know how to be completely self serving. I could be relentless. I could use means of threatening to get what I wanted. You have THAT down to an art. I’ve learned how to make someone so scared that they feel they have to walk away from true friends and places they use to be able to have some faith and trust in. The one huge thing you’ve done for me?? You’ve made me place even more faith in god. God is the one who has given me the strength to hang in there. He’s the one who has made me see the true you because of your actions toward these people who didn’t deserve the likes of you. Thank you for showing me the difference in a real friend and someone who is just there for what they can get. And will use whatever means possible to obtain it. It’s because of you that I have very little trust left for anyone. There is a very small circle I place my complete trust in but because of you, even WE take a second look now and then.
These people deserve peace. They deserve to be FREE of you and your unthinkable actions. You are going to be a bitter old woman with no one someday because you could never see reason. People tried to help you but lets face it. You don’t want the help. You’d much rather wallow in your own self-pity and delusion. You blame everyone else but yourself. You’ve tried to make others responsible for your actions. How dare you?? You are responsible for your own actions. You’re going to have to answer for those decisions and the best thing you can do for yourself now is to leave these people in peace and move on with your life such as it is. They have their own lives as do I and they have the RIGHT to choose WHO they want IN their lives. NO ONE should have to hide because of someone like you. I don’t feel sorry for you. I don’t feel the slightest bit of empathy. All I can feel is hatred. I feel contempt and disgust. Thank you so much for opening my eyes to all these negative things so that I can focus on the positives and continue just as I always have to be there for the friends who need and would like my support
This isn’t the case anymore. I’ve found out about a different person than I saw which just goes to show that you really CAN”T judge a book by its cover. Over this past year, I have seen what a vile, vengeful, uncaring, sick person this former friend is. She has taken the lives of very dear friends turned them completely upside down. She’s made threats on messengers, social networking sites and blogs . She’s harassed my friends to the point they felt they had no other choice but to take a step back and leave sites and take down blogs that have been worked on and cherished for years. She’s been asked by both friends to leave them alone. It’s one thing to love someone and have a close friendship, It’s completely another when you obsess over someone to the point of following them everywhere, copying everything about them She couldn’t back off and give them space instead she made threats upon herself as a vice to try to win. I’ve learned a lot from living through and being there for these dear friends. I’ve learned a lot about myself and about other people.
Now the time has come to say THANK YOU! Thank you for showing me what delusion is. Because of you, I know how to loathe another human being. I know how to be completely self serving. I could be relentless. I could use means of threatening to get what I wanted. You have THAT down to an art. I’ve learned how to make someone so scared that they feel they have to walk away from true friends and places they use to be able to have some faith and trust in. The one huge thing you’ve done for me?? You’ve made me place even more faith in god. God is the one who has given me the strength to hang in there. He’s the one who has made me see the true you because of your actions toward these people who didn’t deserve the likes of you. Thank you for showing me the difference in a real friend and someone who is just there for what they can get. And will use whatever means possible to obtain it. It’s because of you that I have very little trust left for anyone. There is a very small circle I place my complete trust in but because of you, even WE take a second look now and then.
These people deserve peace. They deserve to be FREE of you and your unthinkable actions. You are going to be a bitter old woman with no one someday because you could never see reason. People tried to help you but lets face it. You don’t want the help. You’d much rather wallow in your own self-pity and delusion. You blame everyone else but yourself. You’ve tried to make others responsible for your actions. How dare you?? You are responsible for your own actions. You’re going to have to answer for those decisions and the best thing you can do for yourself now is to leave these people in peace and move on with your life such as it is. They have their own lives as do I and they have the RIGHT to choose WHO they want IN their lives. NO ONE should have to hide because of someone like you. I don’t feel sorry for you. I don’t feel the slightest bit of empathy. All I can feel is hatred. I feel contempt and disgust. Thank you so much for opening my eyes to all these negative things so that I can focus on the positives and continue just as I always have to be there for the friends who need and would like my support
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You already know how I feel about all of this, so all I'll add is that it's good to see you blogging again.
Don't take so long for the next post. xx
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